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Sometimes what we want is not what we actually need. In some circumstances, our desires are harmful and the course of our Indigo Trip tend to divert our path from that indulgence. It can be painful and disappointing when you are not able to obtain your wants. Self-interest can distort the bigger picture, which maps out your destiny.

There are components in life that seems like they are guaranteed (love, health, wealth). Your journey takes you on different courses making these guarantees appear to be far-fetched. Do not be fooled because things did not go as you planned. 

 I can remember a complete stranger telling me to never follow my heart; instead, I should follow my gut. I do not focus too much on the location of my faith and intuition because I know that light is within me. I had to learn how to trust fate, rather than trusting my own fallacies and fictional scenarios.

There has been times where I would pray day and night for the opportunity to reach what I thought I wanted at the time. My vivid imagination made the potentials so golden and pure as if it were the Nile River streaming through Heaven. The reality of my desires, however, were veiled and tainted with everything opposite of what I expected. It is disappointing getting something that you thought would be all you needed and in the end feeling unfulfilled.

I am not saying that you should not have wants and aspirations, our dreams fuel and motivates us to persevere. What I am saying is that your wants are not always guaranteed. 

 For example, if you are unsatisfied with your career, you may want to grow outside of the environment. You attempt to get a job out of state, however, your application was denied. Rejection does not always suggest that you should throw in the towel. Your current job could decide to offer you a promotion that requires you to relocate with a higher salary. You may not understand at the time why your wants are not met. Sometimes it is out of reach on purpose to prepare you, remember to be patient and stay focused.

 Learn by opening your eyes and looking through disappointment, it is ok to feel everything that you go through. Pain, happiness, peace, loneliness, and freedom, are just some of the emotions that will build resilience. God’s timing is never too late!

Love will come, finances will come in abundance, and new journeys will always approach because life is constant but it may not be molded into your expectations. Learn to find light through your disappointments because that disillusionment may sway you away from your blessings.







-De’Laurenz
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