It is hard to witness anyone, no matter if they are close to you or a passing stranger swirling into a downward spiral. The idea for some is like faint embers that still chokes at their memory. I'm familiar with two types of helpers in the world. There are people in the world who helps to the point where they walk themselves into the shoes of the other person. This group of people are nurturers , their first reaction is to extend themselves in order to piece that broken individual back together. The second group helps with a long-handled spoon. These helpers are called directors . A director will show you where you need to go to build yourself up. This group will give you all of the knowledge, resources, and experience that they have. Both groups of people are obliging, no one’s heart is any bigger than the other’s. Further, no one's method is better than the other is. They are both needed for certain situations. A difficult thing...